The amazing thing is, no matter who we are, where we live, whether we’re rich or poor, we have the power to be kind to others, regardless of who they are. Smiles and grace are free and don’t need to be returned to make a difference in someone’s life. We never know what impact a small act can have on someone’s life, even if we never see that person again.
I’ve been really fortunate to have been treated with kindness by people in my life. I choose not to focus on those who have been unkind or who have violated me. I can definitely say that I am who I am because of the people who treated me with kindness. Sometimes kind words can mean everything. I sat on a novel I wrote for a long time because I didn’t think anyone would read it or would have anything nice to say about it. It was because of the kindness of others that I dared to put it out there. Every time I get an email or message from someone who has read it, or see a new positive review, I think of those people who showed me the kindness to encourage me to keep at it. Their encouragement cost nothing, but meant absolutely everything to me.
Kindness also has a tendency for perpetuating itself. My husband and I have been sponsoring a child in Haiti for several years now. He’s eight now, but I still remember his fifth birthday. We had the option to give him a bit extra for a birthday gift. I was thinking the organization would purchase a soccer ball or something he could play with. A few weeks later, a letter came. It explained that four of his family members had passed away, but that he had had a good birthday and that the funds I had sent had been spent on a hen. They were so appreciative of the gift, but it really put the value of our sponsorship into perspective for me. In that moment, I realized child sponsorship is one of the greatest things I’ve ever done. This year, we’ve begun sponsoring a little girl from Haiti as well. I can say with certainty that I’ve gotten more out of sponsoring these children than the monetary amount we give to them. I received a letter recently saying the family of one of our sponsored children is praying for us. A prayer costs them nothing, but has immeasurable power. I’m so humbled by the fact that these people who don’t even know us are willing to pray for us that I am beyond words.
It is easier to stay within your comfort zone. It’s safe
living in our own little worlds. Why step out? Why do something for someone
else without expecting something in return? Why make the world a better place
by showing someone a little grace, or a little love. I think the better
questions are: Why not step out? Why not do something for someone else without
expecting something in return? Don’t we need a kinder, better world? Why not
show more love and grace?
There is so much hurt and anger and violence in this world,
but kindness is free. It can truly change the world and perpetuate goodness.
Mark Twain said, “Kindness is the language which the deaf can hear and the
blind can see,” and it’s absolutely true. By showing love and compassion for others,
especially those who chastise or hurt us, it shows the power we truly hold.
Loving your enemies does not make you weak. It gives you strength. It makes you
a fighter and shows your enemies that you will not give in to their anger or
hate. You will not sink to their level. You will rise above and be kind, not
because you are weak, but because you can see past their anger or their past
transgressions and be a bigger person. This week, I challenge you to step out and step up. Be kind to someone who has wronged you. Maybe your grace and compassion will change their lives, but if not, it may very well change yours. Use your inner strength, that insurmountable power that you hold. You have the power and the strength to be kind. Don’t let it go to waste. Let your light shine brightly and share the gift of kindness with everyone around you!
